10年前的癌症，让我知道什么叫做“不孝”！真的惭愧到极点，我到了40岁，才看清这个事实。
妈妈在我大约35岁时，子宫长瘤，开刀，我并没有回家，因为我电视台工作很忙，我只把医药费从银行户口转账。
爸爸开始必须要洗肾之前，左颈开刀、插管，我并没有回家，因为我电视台工作很忙，我只把医药费从银行户口转账。之后，左手开刀，连接血管，开始洗肾的时候，我也没有回家，因为我电视台工作很忙，我只把每月的医药费从银行户口转账。
当时的我，以为只要把钱寄回家，就叫“孝顺”！！
但，当我在医院化疗时，我爸爸、妈妈从来没告诉我：我们很忙，但我们有钱，你自己在医院面对你自己的治疗吧！他们从来不会以“忙”为借口而不到医院陪我！即使我老爸在洗肾后，身体不舒服或很累，他依然坚持驾着他的老爷车到医院看看我。我老妈，不管天气多么炎热或下多么大的雨，她风雨不改的坐三轮车或sapu车，到医院看看我。
我常说，我老妈子是全世界最“劲”的，因为当我化疗时，我爸爸也正在洗肾，所以这个不会驾车的老妈子，必须自己想办法先把食物送给在洗肾中心的爸爸，然后在转到在化疗病房里的我！当时看着她那疲惫不堪的背影，真的是。。百般滋味。请我们好好的照顾自己的健康，别叫我们的父母亲太沉重啊！
现在，我一直告诉所有朋友：“如果有一天，你家人或朋友发生什么事，但你公司却没能让你请假回去一趟，那你一定要辞掉这份工，因为这种遗憾，一辈子都没能用任何数额的金钱换取的！”
我真的感恩嘉康利Shaklee的创业机会，从我老爸体弱到断气的那几天，我一直在他身边；让我有足够的时间自由，陪伴他度过他这辈子的最后几个小时；让我能为他念了八个小时的阿弥陀佛圣号。。。如果我还在工作，我几乎可以很肯定的说，当我回家奔丧时，我老爸肯定入棺了！
无限感恩在天堂的爸爸，以及还来得及让我孝顺的妈妈。父母恩重难报啊！
也无限感恩嘉康利Shaklee与感恩团队的每一位贵人，让我有如此自由的生活。
如果想要有多一点高品质的时间陪伴家人是你的心愿，请你一起来体会人生的另一个灿烂舞台。祝福。爱。
If this is your dream
to spend more time with your loved ones, I welcome you to join me in Shaklee.
Blessings and love.
I am truly grateful that
I had cancer 10 years ago, when I was 40, because the chemotherapy woke me up
to realize that I had never been filial to my parents.
My mum had a minor
operation when I was 35, but I didn’t make it home to be with her, just
transferred money home because I was too busy with my ntv7 work.
Then, my dad
underwent his dialysis treatment, again, I didn’t make it home to be with him,
just transferred money home because I was too busy with my ntv7 work.
To me, so embarrassed
to say, I thought this is filial piety and the best I could do.
However, what struck
me was, when I had my chemotherapy, my parents never once told me to go to
hospital alone, never once too busy with their work to be with me!
I always tell my
friends: I have the most wonderful super-mum. When I had my chemotherapy, my
dad had his dialysis treatment. My mum didn’t have a driving license, and she
had to depend on the trishaw, sending food to the dialysis centre then to my
hospital. Those few months, I noticed my mum grew older with so much tiredness
and worry written on her face. That sight truly hurt me!
Now, whenever I give
talks and sharing, I will stress that “if one day, our loved ones are ill or in
need, and our work doesn’t allow us to take leave to be with them, RESIGN
immediately! Because if we miss that particular moment in life to be with them,
no amount of money or salary can buy back that loss.”
I am truly grateful
to Shaklee business opportunity for giving me the freedom to spend time with my
loved ones, in health and in sickness! My dad passed away three years ago, and
I had the most wonderful chance to spend quality time with him in his last few
days of his life, till his last breath; and I had the chance to bid him goodbye
with metta blessings.
Dad, I miss you so
much. I will transfer heaps and heaps of blessings to you. And I will make sure
that I take good care of mum. This life I am so proud to be your son.
I am grateful to
Shaklee Gan-en Family for helping me to be who I am today and for allowing me
to spend so much quality time with my mum.
老爸，我好想你。把我的爱与思念，化成无限的祝福，让你去到一个更好的国度。我们会好好的活着，更会让老妈子过得好好的。这辈子有缘做你的儿子，是我的福报！阿弥陀佛。
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