Showing posts with label Mother. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mother. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 06, 2013

最简单的幸福。Luxurious simplicity.



每次回来城,最喜悦的,就是陪妈妈用餐:)
Every time when I come back to Penang, i will make sure that i spend time with mum, over meals :)

不管我们今年几岁,是小宝宝、大宝宝,还是老宝宝,在父母的眼里,我们都是长不大的孩子。当我们小时,父母亲不厌其烦的喂食,虽然我们不听话、弄脏衣服、打翻碗碟等,他们仍然耐心的教导我们。现在我们长大了,我们有多少时间陪父母吃饭?当他们吃饭很慢时、当他们的食物弄脏衣物或嘴角时。。。
No matter how old we are, wether we are small babies, big babies or even old babies like me, in our parents' eyes, we are always kids! When we were young, they were so patient in teaching us how to eat,  how to walk. Even we made so many mistakes or even we stumbled clumsily, they never seemed to lose their patience. However, when we grow up, spending time with them never quite seem to be our priority in life. 

如果我们忙到没时间回家,或是一年只有过年过节才能一家团聚吃顿饭的话,真的要考虑了。这样的生活值得吗?失去了陪伴父母亲的黄金夕阳岁月,我们肯定将遗憾一辈子!
If our work is so busy that we can't find time for our parents, or we can only go home visiting our folks during festive seasons once or twice a year, we really have a lot of considerations to do! Is it worth to sacrifice our time with our parents in their old age for any amount of salary? Really worth it?

真的感恩嘉康利给我如此富足的生活,让我能随时随地、随心所欲的回槟城老家陪妈妈喝个茶、吃个饭;更能让我买了一间我妈妈心目中的豪宅,并花费一笔很可观的现金来装修。在我50岁生日那天,亲手把这间家送给她。如果这是你要的生活,别再犹豫了。欢迎你们加入我们的感恩团队。祝福。爱。
I am truly grateful to Shaklee for giving me such an abundant life, full of freedom that many can only imagine. I am in total control of my time, as I can have the luxury of spending time with my mum, for a cup of tea or a sumptuous meal. I don't have to rush for time with her. And, with Shaklee, I manage to buy my mum her "dream house", and spend quite a handsome sum of money in making it into our new home. This will be my 50th birthday present for my mum.

If this is the kind of lifestyle you desire, hesitate no more. With open arms, I welcome you to our Gan-en Family. (Gan-en means Gratitude. That's our culture!)





Sunday, August 04, 2013

妈妈行万里路的秘诀



小时候,父母巨大的双手,呵护着我们健康成长;
风雨中,父母用最强壮的臂膀,守护着我们快乐成长;
疲累中,父母艰辛撑下去,抚育我们温饱成长;
失落中,父母是最温暖的港湾,陪伴我们幸福成长。

父母无私付出一生,当他们晚年时:腰酸、颈僵、指疼、膝痛、脚踝肿的,我们又能为我们的父母做什么呢?我们不希望他们孤独,更不希望他们在痛苦中默默承受!

现在,我每一年都带妈妈出国好几趟。我想大家都会认同,我们家的父母亲,很多时候不要出国,因为他们担心要走很多路、早起迟睡、又怕水土不服等;同时,我们也不愿意带老人家出国,因为担心他们成为我度假的负担

真的很感恩嘉康利Shaklee的营养品,细心的呵护着我74岁妈妈的健康,让我可以自由自在的带她遨游全世界。到目前为止,我妈妈已经走遍了全世界很多的国家,如:美国(拉斯维加斯、三藩市、AnaheimGrand Canyon)、澳洲、加拿大、瑞士、西班牙、葡萄牙、德国、中国(四川、北京、上海、普陀山、五台山、九华山、云冈石窟、潮州老家)。。。老人家的健康,是我们子女最大的福报。

我真的赞叹我老妈子的脚骨力,无论是夏天的美国、冬天的欧洲、春天和秋天的中国,她都能行动自如。走很远的路、上很长的山路,都没有问题。就令我吃惊的是:当我们到中国的四大名山朝圣时,每天要走很远的上山路,例如在地藏王菩萨道场,九华山,我们在三天里,必须走上走下大约8000级的高低不一的石阶。我很肯定,如果不是嘉康利Shaklee的营养,一个74岁高龄的妇女,绝对没有这种能耐!在九华山时,气温大约是6 °F而已,而且下雨+刮,但都没问题

出国前,我一定会要求子先加强调理身子,重点品是:VIVIX(健康从胞做起)、Nutriferon(免疫系的圣品)、GLA花油(皮肤在不同的气候依然能适)、三宝(健康的基础营养)。

在国外,身的朋友一定会看到我给妈妈VIVIX(健康从胞做起)、Nutriferon(免疫系的圣品)、Advanced Joint Health  OsteMatrix Omega Guard脚骨最有效的配套)。就简单的方式,妈妈就能陪我行走天下,也我可以很安心的她老人家出国旅行与行走天下。

下来的9月,妈妈又将跟我一起到Kota Kinabalu,享受阳光、沙、山区;11月,去敦+巴黎,体会欧美情,尽情的享受理智的疯狂购物,特别是在当地超级值得的国际名牌。

重点是:这两次的旅行,妈妈和我都将乘坐商务舱(business class),而且我们的住宿是套房(suite)。

嘉康利Shaklee,这么棒的事业,透过帮助贵人健康与富足,而让自己与家人过如此美好的生活,欢迎你来体会。祝福。爱。



我妈妈出国的必备:临床实验证实,5天见效!关节灵 Advanced Joint Health的三大功能:

1)缓解疼痛:关节灵能有效清除关节内的有害酶类,祛除导致关节病进一步恶化的因素,并抑制关节炎的发生;同时促进免疫物质的形成,提高关节和身体免疫能力;
2)修复软骨:关节灵可以不断修复已经被磨损或被侵蚀的关节软骨和周围的软骨组织;
3)催生滑液:关节灵为人体催生和补充关节滑液,从而不断润滑关节软骨的表面,减少磨损,使关节活动灵活自如。



关节灵 Advanced Joint Health,绝对不含软骨素(chondroitin)!

适合人群:运动过后、举重者、关节炎、关节损伤/酸痛/僵硬/肿胀、胃溃疡、哮喘。

建议服用:
1)保护关节:早晚各2颗
2)治疗效用:早晚各3颗



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Tuesday, July 30, 2013

父母恩重难报



10年前的癌症,让我知道什么叫做不孝!真的惭愧到极点,我到了40岁,才看清这个事实。

妈妈在我大约35岁时,子宫长瘤,开刀,我并没有回家,因为我电视台工作很忙,我只把医药费从银行户口转账。

爸爸开始必须要洗肾之前,左颈开刀、插管,我并没有回家,因为我电视台工作很忙,我只把医药费从银行户口转账。之后,左手开刀,连接血管,开始洗肾的时候,我也没有回家,因为我电视台工作很忙,我只把每月的医药费从银行户口转账。

当时的我,以为只要把钱寄回家,就叫孝顺!!

但,当我在医院化疗时,我爸爸、妈妈从来没告诉我:我们很忙,但我们有钱,你自己在医院面对你自己的治疗吧!他们从来不会以“忙”为借口而不到医院陪我!即使我老爸在洗肾后,身体不舒服或很累,他依然坚持驾着他的老爷车到医院看看我。我老妈,不管天气多么炎热或下多么大的雨,她风雨不改的坐三轮车或sapu车,到医院看看我。

我常说,我老妈子是全世界最的,因为当我化疗时,我爸爸也正在洗肾,所以这个不会驾车的老妈子,必须自己想办法先把食物送给在洗肾中心的爸爸,然后在转到在化疗病房里的我!当时看着她那疲惫不堪的背影,真的是。。百般滋味。请我们好好的照顾自己的健康,别叫我们的父母亲太沉重啊!

现在,我一直告诉所有朋友:如果有一天,你家人或朋友发生什么事,但你公司却没能让你请假回去一趟,那你一定要辞掉这份工,因为这种遗憾,一辈子都没能用任何数额的金钱换取的!

我真的感恩嘉康利Shaklee的创业机会,从我老爸体弱到断气的那几天,我一直在他身边;让我有足够的时间自由,陪伴他度过他这辈子的最后几个小时;让我能为他念了八个小时的阿弥陀佛圣号。。。如果我还在工作,我几乎可以很肯定的说,当我回家奔丧时,我老爸肯定入棺了!

无限感恩在天堂的爸爸,以及还来得及让我孝顺的妈妈。父母恩重难报啊!

也无限感恩嘉康利Shaklee与感恩团队的每一位贵人,让我有如此自由的生活。

如果想要有多一点高品质的时间陪伴家人是你的心愿,请你一起来体会人生的另一个灿烂舞台。祝福。爱。


I am truly grateful that I had cancer 10 years ago, when I was 40, because the chemotherapy woke me up to realize that I had never been filial to my parents.



My mum had a minor operation when I was 35, but I didn’t make it home to be with her, just transferred money home because I was too busy with my ntv7 work.

Then, my dad underwent his dialysis treatment, again, I didn’t make it home to be with him, just transferred money home because I was too busy with my ntv7 work.

To me, so embarrassed to say, I thought this is filial piety and the best I could do.

However, what struck me was, when I had my chemotherapy, my parents never once told me to go to hospital alone, never once too busy with their work to be with me!

I always tell my friends: I have the most wonderful super-mum. When I had my chemotherapy, my dad had his dialysis treatment. My mum didn’t have a driving license, and she had to depend on the trishaw, sending food to the dialysis centre then to my hospital. Those few months, I noticed my mum grew older with so much tiredness and worry written on her face. That sight truly hurt me!

Now, whenever I give talks and sharing, I will stress that “if one day, our loved ones are ill or in need, and our work doesn’t allow us to take leave to be with them, RESIGN immediately! Because if we miss that particular moment in life to be with them, no amount of money or salary can buy back that loss.”

I am truly grateful to Shaklee business opportunity for giving me the freedom to spend time with my loved ones, in health and in sickness! My dad passed away three years ago, and I had the most wonderful chance to spend quality time with him in his last few days of his life, till his last breath; and I had the chance to bid him goodbye with metta blessings.

Dad, I miss you so much. I will transfer heaps and heaps of blessings to you. And I will make sure that I take good care of mum. This life I am so proud to be your son.

I am grateful to Shaklee Gan-en Family for helping me to be who I am today and for allowing me to spend so much quality time with my mum.

If this is your dream to spend more time with your loved ones, I welcome you to join me in Shaklee. Blessings and love.