Wednesday, July 31, 2013

我的人生,我的故事。 My life, my story.



今天中午,在Subang Empire Gallery的嘉康利总公司,接受了《东方日报》的专访,而这篇专访将在下一个星期一刊登。老实说,专访的内容,又是老掉牙的课题:我在10年前罹患肿瘤后的改变。虽然课题一样,但经过专栏作者的手笔,肯定又有一番不一样的呈现。

重点是:看了关于从鬼门关走一趟回来不死灵魂的分享,我们到底从中学到什么?看了关于成功者一路走来的奋斗过程报导,我们的潜意识到底提升了多少?看了关于现代食物里超过千种化学填充剂的新闻,我们到底警觉了多少?如果内在都没有任何改变,那么,这些报导将继续不断的出现。我记得,有一次,证严上人在开示时,有人问上人,为什么你每天讲的法都几乎一样的?可以讲新的吗?上人很有智慧的回答问道,我昨天讲的,你做到了吗?那人摇摇头,上人就说,那我明天继续讲同样的法给你听!

几个月前,到一个生活营分享我的生命经验,主办单位就要求我讲新的经验,我告诉他们,我只有一次癌症的经验,但只是仅此一次,我就觉醒了,所以,宇宙不需要给我同样的功课!我想,这应该是现代人的迷思吧:什么都要新鲜滚热辣的(除了食物之外!)我的故事,就这么一个。我只想以我这么一个老掉牙的人生经验,激励更多人向上、向善。我的人生经验,只不过是一个借镜,一个警惕。但求我身边的有缘人:平安、健康、幸福、快乐。祝福。爱。

This afternoon, I had an interview with a local Chinese newspaper, Oriental Daily, at Shaklee Home Office, Subang Empire Gallery. This interview will be published on next Monday’s edition. In fact, the content of this interview is still the one and only topic: my life after chemotherapy. Although the same old topic, but I really look forward to reading every piece of writing, because the focus and the skills of each reporter are significantly different.

The main point about reading newspaper reporting is: after reading those life testimonials of people who escaped death after some chronic illnesses, do we change our lifestyle and eating habits? After reading great life stories of those very successful people, are we uplifted? After reading about the thousands of chemicals used in our modern food production, are we more aware when we consume food?

Once, Tzu Chi’s Zheng-yan shang-ren was asked by a student, “Master, why do you repeat the same teaching again and again?” She asked compassionately, “have you practiced my yesterday’s teaching?” The student shook her head. Then, Zheng-yan shang-ren continued, ”in this case, I am going to preach about the same teaching tomorrow.” A few months ago, I was invited to give a sharing, and the committee asked me to share a new life-experience, something different. I told them, I only need one chemotherapy experience to awaken, so the Universe doesn’t have to repeat the same teaching! My story, one and only, and I pray everyday that my story will motivate and uplift others, will heal the souls. Blessings and love.






最后几个小时。。last few hours ...

GLA:市上大多的GLA花油(麻油酸)都提自月见樱草油(EPO),嘉康利的GLA自比EPO高两倍以上,而且是提自地球上最丰富的琉璃苣花油(Borage),它比一般EPO高出三倍生物吸收力与功效。每嘉康利GLA提供超300mgGLA,是最佳的Omega-6来源,可被胞与身体组织所吸收和融合。主要功效:1协调男女荷蒙;2)延更年期;3)改善前列腺大;4)抗癌;5)改善皮肤炎;6防糖尿病并症;7)瘦身与防再度肥胖;8防高血9)改善发质10)改善好儿与自症。建份量:2粒,2次。祝福你。


GLA Complex: kebanyakan GLA (gamma-linolenic acid) tersedia di pasaran dihasilkan dari Evening Primrose Oil (EPO). Manakala GLA Shaklee diekstrak dari borage yang mengandungi lebih 2 kali ganda GLA dari EPO. Borage juga 3 kali ganda bio-availability dan 3 kali lebih berkesan dari EPO. Setiap kapsul GLA mengandungi 300mg GLA, sumber Omega-6 terbaik, dibuktikan secara klinikal di mana ia mampu menyerap dan mengadun ke dalam sel dan tisu. Manfaat utama GLA: 1) mengawal selia estrogen dan testosteron; 2) melambatkan menopaus; 3) menentang kanser; 4) memperbaiki inflamasi kulit; 5) memperbaiki komplikasi diabetes; 6) pelangsingan badan; 7) menghalang tekanan darah tinggi; memperbaiki keadaan hiperaktif dan autisma. Cadangan: 2 kapsul, 2 kali sehari.







Tuesday, July 30, 2013

父母恩重难报



10年前的癌症,让我知道什么叫做不孝!真的惭愧到极点,我到了40岁,才看清这个事实。

妈妈在我大约35岁时,子宫长瘤,开刀,我并没有回家,因为我电视台工作很忙,我只把医药费从银行户口转账。

爸爸开始必须要洗肾之前,左颈开刀、插管,我并没有回家,因为我电视台工作很忙,我只把医药费从银行户口转账。之后,左手开刀,连接血管,开始洗肾的时候,我也没有回家,因为我电视台工作很忙,我只把每月的医药费从银行户口转账。

当时的我,以为只要把钱寄回家,就叫孝顺!!

但,当我在医院化疗时,我爸爸、妈妈从来没告诉我:我们很忙,但我们有钱,你自己在医院面对你自己的治疗吧!他们从来不会以“忙”为借口而不到医院陪我!即使我老爸在洗肾后,身体不舒服或很累,他依然坚持驾着他的老爷车到医院看看我。我老妈,不管天气多么炎热或下多么大的雨,她风雨不改的坐三轮车或sapu车,到医院看看我。

我常说,我老妈子是全世界最的,因为当我化疗时,我爸爸也正在洗肾,所以这个不会驾车的老妈子,必须自己想办法先把食物送给在洗肾中心的爸爸,然后在转到在化疗病房里的我!当时看着她那疲惫不堪的背影,真的是。。百般滋味。请我们好好的照顾自己的健康,别叫我们的父母亲太沉重啊!

现在,我一直告诉所有朋友:如果有一天,你家人或朋友发生什么事,但你公司却没能让你请假回去一趟,那你一定要辞掉这份工,因为这种遗憾,一辈子都没能用任何数额的金钱换取的!

我真的感恩嘉康利Shaklee的创业机会,从我老爸体弱到断气的那几天,我一直在他身边;让我有足够的时间自由,陪伴他度过他这辈子的最后几个小时;让我能为他念了八个小时的阿弥陀佛圣号。。。如果我还在工作,我几乎可以很肯定的说,当我回家奔丧时,我老爸肯定入棺了!

无限感恩在天堂的爸爸,以及还来得及让我孝顺的妈妈。父母恩重难报啊!

也无限感恩嘉康利Shaklee与感恩团队的每一位贵人,让我有如此自由的生活。

如果想要有多一点高品质的时间陪伴家人是你的心愿,请你一起来体会人生的另一个灿烂舞台。祝福。爱。


I am truly grateful that I had cancer 10 years ago, when I was 40, because the chemotherapy woke me up to realize that I had never been filial to my parents.



My mum had a minor operation when I was 35, but I didn’t make it home to be with her, just transferred money home because I was too busy with my ntv7 work.

Then, my dad underwent his dialysis treatment, again, I didn’t make it home to be with him, just transferred money home because I was too busy with my ntv7 work.

To me, so embarrassed to say, I thought this is filial piety and the best I could do.

However, what struck me was, when I had my chemotherapy, my parents never once told me to go to hospital alone, never once too busy with their work to be with me!

I always tell my friends: I have the most wonderful super-mum. When I had my chemotherapy, my dad had his dialysis treatment. My mum didn’t have a driving license, and she had to depend on the trishaw, sending food to the dialysis centre then to my hospital. Those few months, I noticed my mum grew older with so much tiredness and worry written on her face. That sight truly hurt me!

Now, whenever I give talks and sharing, I will stress that “if one day, our loved ones are ill or in need, and our work doesn’t allow us to take leave to be with them, RESIGN immediately! Because if we miss that particular moment in life to be with them, no amount of money or salary can buy back that loss.”

I am truly grateful to Shaklee business opportunity for giving me the freedom to spend time with my loved ones, in health and in sickness! My dad passed away three years ago, and I had the most wonderful chance to spend quality time with him in his last few days of his life, till his last breath; and I had the chance to bid him goodbye with metta blessings.

Dad, I miss you so much. I will transfer heaps and heaps of blessings to you. And I will make sure that I take good care of mum. This life I am so proud to be your son.

I am grateful to Shaklee Gan-en Family for helping me to be who I am today and for allowing me to spend so much quality time with my mum.

If this is your dream to spend more time with your loved ones, I welcome you to join me in Shaklee. Blessings and love.